Wednesday, July 1, 2015

LOVE?

Love quotes are so cheap and annoying these days I can almost stand it.
Love is a powerful word that entirely consists of complexity. To love is to be human. Love is deep and definitely not narrow.

It's sickening how everywhere I go I always find some shallow love quotes. I mean, love is not just a three-words edited into a-kissing-couple background. Love is NOT when a guy pulls you in his arms and tells you you're beautiful and that he'll stay with you forever. Love is NOT about cute goodnight texts and calling you a princess. Love is NOT about the smiling and hugging and holding hands. Love is NOT the way you melt when he pushes back his hair and winks for you in front of his friends. There is a fine line between love and lust. Hell, no wonder girls get their heart broken so easily (and still bitching about it with ANOTHER shallow breakup and heartbreak quotes that I can't even start commenting on) *deep breath*

People mixed up the concept of love that it actually loses its meaning. Why can't we all take a step back and look at it with a deeper and mature view. Stop being so naive. Perfect boyfriend only existed in fairy tales. You aren't perfect, your boyfriend probably aren't either. Learn to accept, to get comfortable with each other's imperfection. Surf beneath their fears and insecurities and share yours. That's the point of a relationship. And if you don't get comfortable with it, or he turns out to be an asshole, or any other discomfort you are very free to leave (its not like you're married). And calm down, stop rushing into this thing you call "love". You're sixteen for god's sake. If it doesn't work out, it's not the end of the world.

Instead of whining about it, why don't we make the best of it? Love is not everything we should be focused to. We are meant to feel love in our veins, rushing but steady, exciting but serene. We aren't meant to force love and be stuck in it. True love will feel right. 
We're young, there are plenty of time to do things that matter. Travel, interact with people, listen to awesome musics, read books to widen your view on life, explore, seek experiences. Find yourself before searching for others. Love when you're ready.

Here are some quotes on love - and by love, I mean the real one, the kind that lasts, the deeper view of it. It's so rare to find honest love quotes these days so it might as well feel like finding a treasure. Enjoy.














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